Notice patterns
Look at recurring reactions and choices in relationships.
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LoveSmart — Choose with clarity
Know yourself before choosing a partner.
A four-day online workshop in which Ola shares how she built a set of values and questions to approach dating more intentionally. The exercises help you shape a version that fits your life.
From Ola’s experience
46 dates in three months
Ola looked back at times when chemistry alone had guided her decisions, and asked what really mattered in a long-term partner.
She began to identify her core values, build questions and notice compatibility across her dates. Through that process, she met the person who later became her husband.
In LoveSmart, Ola shares how she built and used that approach so participants can create one that works for them.
“A place to begin: what do I actually want to choose for my life?”
What will you work on?
These are the established parts of the existing LoveSmart workshop.
Clarify your values
Name what matters to you and the boundaries you want to keep.
Build your questions
Shape questions around your values, using Ola’s 140-question resource as a reference.
Practice and ask
Complete daily exercises and bring questions to the private group on Q&A day.
Four days of LoveSmart
Evergreen workshop content; the next cohort schedule will be announced separately.
Day 1
From feeling to a clearer approach
Examine your dating mindset and the questions you tend to ask yourself.
Live session with a recording
Day 2
Identify your core values
Name what matters to you in a long-term relationship.
Video and practical exercises
Day 3
Design your questions
Build questions around your own values rather than a universal checklist.
Video, exercises and 140-question reference
Day 4
Q&A with Ola
Review the exercises, ask questions and refine your approach.
Private group and Q&A
LoveSmart may be for you if
You want to date seriously
You want clarity about what you are looking for and the values you will protect.
You are getting to know someone
You want to consider long-term compatibility and communicate more clearly.
You are in a relationship
You want to reflect on what supports it and what makes it difficult.
It may not be the right workshop if you
- Want a formula to make someone love you or to manipulate them.
- Want to use 140 questions as a checklist without doing your own reflection.
- Need therapy or mental-health treatment.
Programs
Waitlist openHear about the next LoveSmart cohort
Dates and pricing for the next cohort have not been confirmed. Leave your email for an update when they are available.
Questions people ask
Will the workshop help me find the right person?
It cannot guarantee that outcome. Its aim is to help you understand yourself and make more intentional choices.
Does LoveSmart teach persuasion or manipulation?
No. The questions are a resource to adapt around your own values, never a way to control someone else.
Is LoveSmart therapy?
No. It is not therapy or a substitute for professional mental-health care.
Do I need to use dating apps?
No. The work on values and choices can be useful whether or not you use an app.
What language is the workshop delivered in?
The existing workshop was created and delivered in Vietnamese.
LoveSmart does not guarantee a partner, teach manipulation or replace therapy or mental-health care.